小马的offer来了，虽然他G没成绩，IELTS也是低分过线。事实证明有真才实学的人还是受欢迎的，如果不行那就得另僻奚径。很显然我属于前者，但是后者离我亦有千山万水。只要勤劳善良便有美好人生的日子似乎一去不复返了，有点觉得溶入不了社会。开始觉得生活不在有准则 ,你遵守便一切 OK. 或者有而我不知道，也没人告诉我。

    回到出国的主题，如果真的如人所说,NUS master的offer凤毛麟角，我可能不得不读PHD。四年，我的青春！

    什么时候才能有主动的人生？

    终于考完作文了。 考试还可以，虽说写的不怎么样，但还是凑了一堆字，不是靠前担心的一个字也写不出。考完出来突然觉得南京的天很明媚， 风丝丝很清爽，终于解脱了。考前一周时，心里压力很大，人都快崩溃了，现在考完了，也就不觉得怎样了。昨晚回来，无聊翻了翻书，无意中看到了介绍释迦牟尼的文章。开心、悲伤，成功、失败皆是幻想，摆脱各种苦难唯有无欲无求。想想是蛮有道理的，不过平和的人生便没有了激情。人生太悲的人从佛教得到解脱，是否有人不苦不悲便放弃俗世的享受呢？

    22号在南京玩了一天，湖南路，新街口，夫子庙，商业街和苏州没什么两样。玄武湖公园倒是不错，虽然里面的游乐设备和小时候没啥两样，但是三面环山一面临城听上去就很吸引人了。地方很大，租了辆双人自行车，便疯子一样在公园力飙车，很是释放。又踩了两小时的脚踏船，现在腿都是软的。城市里有这样一个让人放纵的地方真是不错。

   

 

开学了，从大学生变成了研究生，唯一的改变恐怕是没有免费的三轮车帮我们送行李，得自己叫车，然后还要把一堆东西哼哼唧唧地搬上恐惊天上人的六楼。不过Where is the problem,where is the solution——我们有男朋友！

但是最近真是郁闷，已经两天不想看书了。外面下着雨，天气冷的要死，我躲在男生宿舍看了半天<欲望都市>。就是不想写作文，不想动脑筋。谁来救我啊！

 

 

 Issue 26
Most people would agree that buildings represent a valuable record of any society's past, but controversy arises when old buildings stand on the ground that modern planners feel could be better used for modern purposes. In such situations, modern development should be given precedence over the preservation of historic buildings so that contemporary needs can be served.

Controversy arises when old buildings stand on the ground that modern planners feel could be better used for modern purposes. In this situation, the speaker points that, modern development should be given precedence over the preservation of historic buildings so that contemporary needs can be served. In my view, we should deal with these problems in a case-to-case basis.
Old buildings which of a long history value high in anthropology. In its years, it witnesses the changes and progress of human lives. We can imagine the majesty of Pharaohs from pyramids; the mightiness of Qing dynasty of the Great Wall; the prosperous of the Roman form the Roman amphitheatre; the deep love between Shah Jehan and Mumtaz Mahal form Taj Mahal. We learn history from old buildings, which is even more important when lack of document. These buildings are part of the history and give us a vivid view of our history. In any situations, I don't think it is proper that we should raze these buildings of significant anthropological meanings.
Sometimes old buildings are the business cards of nations or enthnic groups. When we heard the word of Egypt, pyramid will occur to our mind immediately. We can't imagine what Egypt will be without pyramids. Many immigrants will enter the States from the harbor of New York. When they catch the sight of the statue of Liberty they will cheer with excitement and tears. For them, the statue of Liberty stands for America, the states of the highest freedom and democracy. When they see it, they know them be there and in them. Old buildings provide us a sense of belongs and identity and contribute to the diversity. It would be awful in a world wherever you go you will have the same feeling that you are in Manhattan. In this world of globalization and culture assimilating, we need something to indicate that we are we.
Old building may also value high in aesthetic and architectural. The Chiesa de S.Maria Della Grazieeil, dedicated with the fresco of Leonardo Da Vinci and built in the Renaissance, is the treasure of aesthetics and architectonics. Still take the Pyramid for example. Up to now, Scientists have never figure out how the ancient Egypt built these imperial tombs. For considering the tremendous scale of the whole project and heaviness of work force, the pyramid can't be completed in one hundred of years by a nation of the population as Egypt in that time. Even in today's technology and science, we still can't build such a same jumbo. And some people even think it is with the help of aliens from other planets the Egypt built these pyramids. Many other mysteries aroused by the pyramid still can't find reasonable explains. If these pyramids on day disappear on our planet, we not just lose a historic site to visit. And the value of old buildings, sometimes, can't be detected at current science and technology. When the anthropologists ship out of first of finding of mummy, the custom officers thought it was dry fish. If we always give contemporary needs priority over old building, mistakes of this kind by all means can't be avoided.
While contemporary needs also should be considered seriously. The old buildings would be meaningless if human's basically needs can't be meet. Anyway it is we, human, create the history: one generation gave way to another, one miracle led to the next. Old buildings shouldn’t hold back humans' way to eudemonia and advancement.
So in face of this controversy, we should weigh both sides seriously and carefully and in a case-to-case basis. Giving precedence to any side without careful observation and investigation would be imprudent.

    昨天Bottle请我们到她家吃饭，别看这小姑娘平时大大咧咧、傻嘻嘻的，也没多少cook经验，但是硬是很强悍的捣鼓出一桌饭出来。至于为什么用“捣”呢，各位见识过该大姐炒菜的样子就知道了！Bottle的男朋友，也就是王TAOTAO同学，笑起来很伽菲猫，人很热情客气，很会调节气氛，一套套的。不禁让我为我们家那位着急……昨天我们宿舍还在苏州的四个都齐了。以前在宿舍看韩剧看的哭得稀里哗啦的一帮人，现在把地点换进厨房，拿起了锅碗瓢盆，岁月……有我们几个在，估计人家整栋楼都不要想早点睡觉了。最后还是要赞一下Bottle的，虽然卖相需要进一步完善，味道真的蛮好的！
    昨天看Bottle拿锅铲的样子，不假思索地拿了过来示意几下，突然间觉得我好像我妈妈。妈妈在我们那算是很巧的人了，过节时亲戚间互相请客，轮换着到各家玩，因为妈妈很会做菜，换来换去总是妈妈掌勺。就算不让她做，看到别人做事不入眼或是东西没放好啦，没洗干净啦，总是会自己去做。以前在家里，经常因为东西不放到位被妈妈骂。影响最深刻的是，每次放假妈妈总是威胁要把我的书仍到河里去，因为我总是到处乱扔。但是我却发现我却把这一点继承了过来。现在看到我们宿舍满地的拖鞋，心里那个难受啊！看到妹妹书不放到书架上指定的位置，顿时便火冒三丈！以前总觉得人家的妈妈多好啊，我的妈妈这么凶，规矩这么多。现在想想换成我，肯定每年开学都没有暑假作业交了。以前听老话说什么“养儿方知报娘恩”总是嗤之以鼻，现在大了，有些角色换成了自己，才知道这句话虽浅显，却道出了人性的真实。人再复杂，把自己武装的再厚密，却也是几句粗俗简单的话便概括的透透彻彻。我在外面倒蛮能做菜的，在家里也是偶尔兴致来了才做一个菜，从来没有在家完完整整的做出一桌菜。想想愿因，是因为在外面实在吃不到合自己胃口的饭，没办法只能自己动手。在家，不论妈妈做什么，总是家里的味道，是从小到大吃习惯的，总会是心里思念的味道，总会是很好吃的，所以也就不去管厨房里的事情了。下次回家一定要独立烧一桌菜出来，也让我妈享受一下在自家什么都不要管就等吃饭的感觉。可是今年什么时候才能回家呢，很可能要等到寒假了，想家……

   

来学校十天了，每天貌似还蛮认真，但是，但是回过头来想想也就干了一点点事啊。看了19单元的单词，20篇北美范文，写了两篇作文。为什么这么低效啊！！！

"Although many people think that the luxuries and conveniences of temporary life are entirely harmless, in fact, they actually prevent people from developling into truely strong and independant individuals."

The speaker pointed that the luxuries and conveniences of temporary life prevent people from developing into strong and independent individuals. I can't agree with it. In my mind, actually, with the conveniences of modern life human beings are stronger and more independent ever than before.
It is fact that we move by cars, talk through telephones, eat at restarants, even have coffee in Star barks nearby. From these, many people may acclaim that modern life is too convenient and luxury then hitch people's development into truly strong and independent human beings. But one question is that is our life really too convenient that people somehow lack chance to practice and()  our bodies and soul? To maintain a modern life we need to work for long time. The average American employer spends nearly 60 hours per week at work now and in most families both spouses work. Compare this busy pace to the pace a generation ago, when one bread-winner worked just over 40 hours per week. We are in an increasingly busy society and endure the highest pressure. The food, clothes and products bunched in stores are not donated by aliens from other planes. It is the fruit yielded by our hard work and intelligence. The conveniences cost money, and we need to work hard to enjoy it. And through the process we gain knowledge and become strong and independent.
On the contrary, I think, with the progress of science and technology, we are stronger and more dependant ever than before. With the high-tech, for instance, we can know things happen in every corner of the world which is can't be imagined in any generation before.
Another question is that are we less independent than people in other eras? We need telephones to communicate, mobiles to travel, and lots of domestic machines to keep our homes tidy and clean. Comparing with our ancestors, it is true that we need more machines and other people's helps. But I don't think it means we are more dependent. (随着社会分工越来越细，以前那种独立在当今社会是不合时宜的，暂时不会写……). What I want to say is that dependence in different years means different. We can't allege we are more dependent just because people before our age don't have these conveniences while we have them. People in different ages can't be observed by the same criterion.
 

"A nation should require all its students to study the same national curriculum until they enter collage rather than allow schools in different parts of the nation to determine which academic courses to offer ."

 

According to the speaker schools in a nation should be required to offer the same national curriculum rather than chose academic courses by themselves. Actually, as the need of further education, some core curriculums should be thought in all schools. But it never means schools can do noting in the choose of academic courses.

Some curriculums should be thought in all schools. First,a national standard of curriculum should be set in order to make sure all the students acquire the fundamental skills and knowledge, such as math, physics, history and so on. Secondly, the enrollment of college also need there be some common curriculums all students have learnt. For colleges need a standard to decide which student should be chose while which to reject. If there is no common ground of the education of students, in which ways could college to select? But all these never means school and community could do nothing in the sets of curriculums.

First of all, because of region and religions, students from different parts of a nation could be significantly different in certain place. So teaching them the same course sometimes is not scientific and practical. For example, Canada has two official languages, that is English and French. Obviously, It is not reasonable that both the students, no matter they are native English speakers or French speakers, have the same language course. It may be too easy to one group of students while too frustrate to another group.

Secondly, the same curriculums may be failure in keeping the traditions and character of different communities. Take Suzhou, a tractional southeast Chinese town, for example. Suzhou is famous for its richness of culture and it is the cradle city of QUN opera which once is every popular and prevalent in southeast China and was selected as World Immaterial Cultural Legacy. The QUN opera, once all the citizens no mater the intellectual nor the needy can enjoy even play, now could just be heard in the theater and few of the young graduation can understand. Because QUN opera need to play in Suzhou dialect, while mandarin is the only language used in school all across the nation then students have no chance to speak dialect in schools. As a result, few and few Suzhou young citizens can speak Suzhou dialect, never mention to play QUN opera.

In total, There should be a common sets of curriculums that all the school in the nation should take, while according to its reginal character, schools also has the freedom to add some courses. A successful set of curriculums need not only the nation as a whole but also the local community's wisdom. 

今天好容易在qq碰老友，她告诉我她以前的qq被盗了，所以q－zone也没了。

在这提醒各位要设个厉害的密码，苦心经营的日志被盗可不是件轻松的事！

总之大家当心！

   最近天天看sex and the city, 忙里偷闲看了下变形金刚. 女主角身材那个火辣啊, 看得我脑袋里只有两字: 减肥!  电影还不错, 不过男主角还未长成的样子, 给他这么一美眉, 实在让人感慨这男权的社会! 好男人这要有一个有点, 女人则必须才貌兼备. 电影中美国的部队遍布全球啊, 那种调兵遣将的样子真让人羡慕啊! 我的祖国什么时候才能是最强大啊!! 

   前几日放了几盒肉松在图书馆, 第二天竟然不见了. 后来有人有告诉我, 我们的肉松昨晚十点被人拿走了. 一番调查后知道,这人是商学院04级的, 头发有点自然卷, 有浓烈的异味. 本来以为有了这些线索便可以很快查出来. 兴充充的跑到保卫处, 两位上了年纪的大叔很快便泼了冷水. 什么没有证据啦, 没有辅导员电话啦, 找到也不会承认的啦……总之便是推诿, 不感兴趣. 一个小偷便这样放掉了! 想想我们学校装了那么多的摄像头, 本以为牺牲点隐私便可以换来安全. 结果如此我们得到了什么? 图书馆的监控我们去看了一下, 偌大的图书馆装了那么多摄像头, 竟然只有一个有用, 而且工作人员竟然不太会使用! 我提议看一下东吴桥的摄像, 因为从本部到东区那是必经之路, 未得到允许. 不仅让人怀疑是不是有一个图书馆监控现象?

   如今大大小小的公共场合都流行装摄像头, 我有位亲戚便是组织了一帮人在我们穷苦破落未发展的盐城帮人装摄像头, 据说一年也可以赚一百多万. 我们的社会在摄像头上的投入由此可见一斑. 然而我们的社会治安真的变好了吗? 银行的ATM机也装了摄像头, 但我们也有朋友被抢走银行卡, 钱全被取光! 纳税人的钱花在摄像头到底换来了什么? 是隐私被侵蚀殆尽还是自欺欺人的安全感?

   上次钱包手机被偷去报警, 算是体验了有我国特色的办公流程. 被盘问了半天后警察叔叔告诉我们, 回去等消息. 结果到现在还未有幸接到警察叔叔的电话. 反而小偷倒是有情有意, 东西是在观前丢的, 我发短信去请求把钱包和证件还给我. 结果环保阿姨真的在苏大的垃圾箱中找到了我的钱包. 希望警察叔叔提高工作热情和效率, 可谓长路漫漫. 考虑一下行为成本, 还是乞求小偷们增强职业道德吧!

    大概一星期前搬到了研究生宿舍, 六人间住四人, 研究生就是好啊! 终于告别了我们拥挤不堪的224, 虽然在那度过了人生最美好的时光, 但是,不得不承认住的真不好, 都没有打扫的激情, 类似破罐子破摔的感觉. 新宿舍阳面, 洗漱间有一面大镜子, 刷牙的时候可以看着自己, 幸福啊……

    同住舍友分别是莫莫(恋爱中的女人), 刘星星,狗狗, 希望我们相处融洽, 共度三年美好时光.

   

    感谢马家家同学, 大热天搬了三天才搬完, 一直充当免费劳动力, 不辞辛苦, 偶尔还有忍受一下我的坏脾气!

    Sorry to LYY ,忘了帮她搬电饭锅, 她想自己做饭吃的梦想得暂时搁置了. 但愿多买几个ERP~~~

    总之, 搬了新居, 美好新生活!

 

    好长时间不出去玩了, 昨晚小马老公提议去金鸡湖. 我说太热了啊, 他则认为湖边会有很大的风. 跑去一看, 果然, 纹丝不动. 不过夜景还不错的, 李公堤静静的在远方. 那种传统苏式房子的感觉让你觉得回到了以前. 不知前方是否有一个人影交错的灯谜会? 又是否在灯火阑珊处, 有位倾长婀娜的女子待人蓦然回首?

    太热了, 直接跑到荷兰风车那边的水池, 好多人在里面玩呢. 我们当然立马脱了鞋子加入了. 水真是舒服啊, 凉凉的, 立刻就不觉得热了.两个小屁孩光光的什么都没穿在里面玩的很起劲, 又是爬又是打滚的. 人生最美好的时光啊! 有点滑, 不时的来一个小小的惊吓. 不过心里还是有点期待. 平淡的日子, 有时期待来一个破坏力不强的意外. 就像高中时, 总希望学校停电一样. 不过呢, 水还是有点脏, 我们研究了半天, 也没想到什么好的清理方法.

    下面讲最最好玩的地方了, 那就是风车前的浮桥了. 蓝色的, 走在上面一晃一晃的, 不知道这边的水域深不深啊, 掉下去就呜呼了. 明知没什么意思, 还是作白痴状, 问老公我掉下去你会怎么办啊? 静静地坐在浮桥上, 脚丫子们自在地在水中荡来荡去, 水波一圈一圈的离你而去,左侧湖面上路灯的倒影就像一串月亮一样, 亮白亮白的. 哼个小曲, 伴随着浮桥的晃动, 岸上的一切迅速地远离我们, 如梦如幻……

    脚湿了, 便有了一个很好的理由不穿鞋啦! 两个人像小傻瓜一样, 各拎着一双鞋光着脚丫子在路上荡来荡去的. 湖滨大道上的路是黑白石板相间的, 可以直接用脚判断是白还是黑.

    回来的路上, 几经抗议, 我才得以不穿鞋, 继续在自行车后荡来荡去. 兴致所至, 本来打算吼几声Animal city至少也是complecated这样的歌的. 结果发现, 我手机没电, 他没存这两首. 只能捏着嗓子, 抒情几句wishes.园区的灯都很搞笑, 呆呆傻傻的那种, 不过还是蛮有童趣的.

   以前在去金鸡湖的路上看到过一个小区的房顶灯光做的很好玩, 看起来像是很多童话里的城堡. 这次没看到, 难道是我眼花了?

  

   

    今天早上六点一刻便起床, 早饭都没吃便跑到图书馆, 到时正门都还没开. 从地下室一路跑到三楼自习教室, 人倒是寥寥无几, 却没有一个位置没堆书. 没法子, 挑了个书少的位置坐下. 书的主人是个学医的女孩子, 八点多来的, 看到我没有让的意思, 挑了个座位坐下. 不过她还真不离不弃, 把书啊, 包啊的还放在我这. 最搞笑的是, 杯子喝口水后还放回来. 不过, 我是不会怜香惜玉, 主动禅让的. 中午去吃午饭, 二十分钟后回来, 我的座位已经坐着另外一个女孩子, 据说位置是前面那个让她坐的, 说明情况后这个女孩子还比较好说话, 气人的是学医女孩的一帮子朋友, 跳出来说位置就是学医女孩的. 我和他们讲我上午一直在这啊, 按照图书馆的规定, 这个位置应该我使用的啊. 其中一女孩便说规定我们不管, 大家都占位置, 这个位置便是我们的. 哪有这么逻辑混乱的人啊, 大家都是高学历者, 哪能这么不讲道理啊. 网上讽刺大学教育作假, 说大学生是被注水的猪, 还乐哼哼的! 这帮女孩子, 明知不对, 还以大家都这样为借口, 这样小偷阿是不算犯罪, 只有被逮到的才判刑, 那么多的逍遥法外呢! 国家法律不完善, 还有人做钉子户呢, 我们这有规则不遵守, 还自认有道理.

    我们图书馆管理有漏洞, 搞得大家深受占位之苦, 座位利用率不高. 有人也是受害者却不知, 还沾沾自喜, 自以为意, 真是受不了.

   

    妹妹中考成绩出来了, 726, 还算正常发挥, 之前估分只估了670, 搞得全家心情不好, 她自己也很难受, 都不愿接我的电话. 我跟着难受, 一锤定音的考试这制度真难受, 不论你之前怎样, 就看那几张卷子. 可是在现在的环境下, 如果加上平时的表现, 肯定冒出一堆腐败问题. 什么时候我们的孩子才不要受这种折磨.

    不过, 这次总算是有惊无险. 妹妹可以有一个很开心的暑假, 乘着还小, 多玩玩!

    最近背G的单词, 用的新东方的软件, 目前为止学了2k多了, 这可是我第一次字典背到D 啊, 先赞一个.

    我的第一本单词书是高三时买的, 到上大学时还没翻到B. 大二考六级时, 雄心勃勃地买了本老厚的星火, 结果B 未看完便丢了. 大三考高口, 照样买了书没翻. 前几月看TOFEL, 书太厚被劈成两半, 但还是看到1/4便每下文了. 我的英语别的方面还好, 就是单词量太少, 一直是我的瓶颈啊, 这次一定要把整本书学完. Fighting!

     

     宿舍渐渐地搬空, 最终只剩下一个人八张床, 毕业就这样摆在面前. 不管你还有未开口说出的话, 未来得及做的事!  没有流泪, 没有最后的疯狂, 大学便这样结束了. 人真是很奇怪的生物, 只要登上汽车, 不管你有千言万语, 从此便两地相隔, 各自柴米油盐. 下辈子要做一个树, 永远屹立于一处, 只流连一处的美景.

     身边的同学, 工作、读研、考研, 都不尽如人意. 四年前的梦想还有多少, 又还有多远!  好在我们年轻, 只要不忘最初的梦想!

     老公终于从北京回来了, 习惯真是伟大的力量, 在一起时不觉得, 分开了才知道我们的生活早已千丝万缕的交错在一起. 了无生趣地过完了一个星期, 昨天猛然间意识到明天早上他便回来了, 心中顿时便充满了那种很开心很开心的喜悦. 爱情的感觉真好. 要是快乐也可以用瓶子收集起来, 每当疲惫乏力的时候, 轻轻地嗅一下, 便能重温那段喜悦、那段心情, 人生该会多美好啊!

     他去新加坡国立的事情看来很有眉目了, 算了一下时间, 什么语言成绩都没有的我, 正常年速度,要出去的得两年. 两年时间后的我们不知道会是怎样.

    

    

     

 

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感谢老公的技术支持,呵呵!

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